Motherhood is like starring in your own reality show… except there’s no prize money, no commercial breaks, and the drama never ends. It’s like being the CEO of a never-closing business… except there are no off-hours, no sick days, and definitely no annual bonuses. Okay… okay… Enough with my metaphors!
Between keeping tiny humans alive, maintaining a household, and possibly even working outside the home, the pressure is unreal. And yet, so many moms feel like they have to do it all alone.
Moms need help! Not just the occasional babysitting favor or a quick grocery run… REAL… meaningful, everyday support. The kind that lifts the weight off your shoulders and gives you back time, energy, and sanity.
Your village doesn’t have to be a built-in network of family or lifelong friends. You can create it. That’s exactly what I did, and trust me, it changed everything.
So, if you’re running on fumes, feeling like you’re drowning in responsibilities, and wondering how other moms make it look so effortless… they don’t. They have help. And you should, too. Let’s talk about how you can build your own village and take back control of your life.
What Does a “Village” Look Like?
When people hear the term “village,” they often picture an idyllic scene where grandparents, aunts, uncles, and friends are readily available to help with childcare, meal prep, and household tasks. But for many of us, that is simply not reality.
Moms DO need help, but it doesn’t have to come from family alone. You can build a village that fits your life, designed to support your unique needs and lifestyle.
For me…and some of my other clients, that means hiring a few key people to help lighten the load:
1. House Cleaners
The first step in building my village was hiring house cleaners. As a busy mom, with a career, constantly cleaning up messes was draining my time and energy. Hiring professionals to clean my home every two weeks took an enormous mental load off my plate.
Instead of spending my precious time scrubbing floors and wiping countertops, I was able to focus on my family, work, and personal well-being.
2. Meal Prep Help
Meal prep was another major stressor. Between planning meals, grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning up, I was spending nearly 12 hours a week just trying to feed my family.
That’s an entire part-time job! Hiring a meal prep chef was a game changer. Not only did it save time, but it also reduced daily decision fatigue and stress.
3. Nanny
My clients adore their kids, but they also need a moment to breathe. To focus on work, grab a coffee without racing back, or (let’s be real) use the bathroom alone for once.
That’s why they bring in a nanny or sitter. Whether it’s a few hours a week or full-time support, having someone they trust with their kids means they can actually be present, at work, on date nights, or just enjoying a little peace without someone yelling “Mom!” every 30 seconds.
4. House Manager
After having my second child, I realized that managing my household on top of everything else was becoming impossible. That’s when I hired a house manager.
She handles grocery shopping, organizing, running errands, and even walking the dog. Her support allows me to be more present with my family and feel less overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list.
The Transformational Power of Support
Yes! We can agree that… Moms need help… but many of us don’t realize just how much help we actually need until we start outsourcing tasks. Once I built my village, I noticed major shifts in my life:
- Less mental exhaustion: I no longer spent hours worrying about whether we had enough milk or if the laundry was piling up.
- More presence with my kids: Instead of constantly feeling rushed or stressed, I had the energy to engage with my children in meaningful ways. Being present with my kids and husband is truly priceless!
- A stronger marriage: Sharing the load brought more balance to my relationship, reducing resentment and frustration.
Ready to Build Your Village? We’ll Help You Find Your Perfect Match
I know what you’re thinking:
“This sounds amazing, Kelly, but where do I even start? I don’t have time to post jobs, screen candidates, and figure out if someone’s trustworthy.”
I get it. Finding the right person, someone you can actually trust with your home and family, shouldn’t feel like another full-time job.
That’s exactly why I created Sage Haus hiring services.
After building my own village and helping friends do the same, I realized the hardest part wasn’t deciding to get help… it was finding the right help. Someone who fits your family like a glove. Someone proactive, reliable, and gets your unique needs without you having to explain everything twice.
We do the heavy lifting for you. We screen, vet, and custom-match you with top-tier house managers, family assistants, or meal prep chefs who are perfect for your household. No endless job postings. No awkward interviews with people who just don’t get it. Just two vetted finalists who are ready to transform your daily life.
Your Family Deserves a Happy, Healthy Mom
At the end of the day, the people who matter most, your children, your spouse, and you, deserve a mom who isn’t drowning in exhaustion. That help is available, and it starts with one conversation.
If you’re ready to stop doing it all and start living more fully, book a free info call and let’s talk about what your village could look like. Because you, and your family, deserve it.
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