Motherhood is like starring in your own reality show…except there’s no prize money, no commercial breaks, and the drama never ends. It’s like being the CEO of a never-closing business…except there are no off-hours, no sick days, and definitely no annual bonuses. Okay… okay.. Enough with my metaphors!
Between keeping tiny humans alive, maintaining a household, and possibly even working outside the home, the pressure is unreal. And yet, so many moms feel like they have to do it all alone.
Here’s the truth: Moms need help! Not just the occasional babysitting favor or a quick grocery run…REAL…meaningful, everyday support. The kind that lifts the weight off your shoulders and gives you back time, energy, and sanity.
But here’s the good news: your village doesn’t have to be a built-in network of family or lifelong friends. You can create it. That’s exactly what I did, and trust me, it changed everything.
So, if you’re running on fumes, feeling like you’re drowning in responsibilities, and wondering how other moms make it look so effortless…spoiler alert: they don’t. They have help. And you should, too. Let’s talk about how you can build your own village and take back control of your life.
What Does a “Village” Look Like?
When people hear the term “village,” they often picture an idyllic scene where grandparents, aunts, uncles, and friends are readily available to help with childcare, meal prep, and household tasks. But for many of us, that is simply not reality.
The good news? Moms do need help—but it doesn’t have to come from family alone. You can build a village that fits your life, designed to support your unique needs and lifestyle.
For me…and some of my other clients, that means hiring a few key people to help lighten the load:
1. House Cleaners
The first step in building my village was hiring house cleaners. As a busy mom, with a career, constantly cleaning up messes was draining my time and energy. Hiring professionals to clean my home every two weeks took an enormous mental load off my plate.
Instead of spending my precious time scrubbing floors and wiping countertops, I was able to focus on my family, work, and personal well-being.
2. Meal Prep Help
Meal prep was another major stressor. Between planning meals, grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning up, I was spending nearly 12 hours a week just trying to feed my family.
That’s an entire part-time job! Hiring a meal prep chef was a game changer. Not only did it save time, but it also reduced daily decision fatigue and stress.
3. Nanny
My clients adore their kids, but they also need a moment to breathe. To focus on work, grab a coffee without racing back, or (let’s be real) use the bathroom alone for once.
That’s why they bring in a nanny or sitter. Whether it’s a few hours a week or full-time support, having someone they trust with their kids means they can actually be present, at work, on date nights, or just enjoying a little peace without someone yelling “Mom!” every 30 seconds.
4. House Manager
After having my second child, I realized that managing my household on top of everything else was becoming impossible. That’s when I hired a house manager.
She handles grocery shopping, organizing, running errands, and even walking the dog. Her support allows me to be more present with my family and feel less overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list.
The Transformational Power of Support
Yes! We can agree that…Moms need help… but many of us don’t realize just how much help we actually need until we start outsourcing tasks. Once I built my village, I noticed major shifts in my life:
- Less mental exhaustion: I no longer spent hours worrying about whether we had enough milk or if the laundry was piling up.
- More presence with my kids: Instead of constantly feeling rushed or stressed, I had the energy to engage with my children in meaningful ways. Being present with my kids and husband is truly priceless!
- A stronger marriage: Sharing the load brought more balance to my relationship, reducing resentment and frustration.
How to Build Your Own Village
But, where do I start? I know the thought of finding and hiring your village can feel like just another mental load, one more thing on an already overflowing to-do list. That’s exactly why I created this starter kit.
It has everything you need to hire and onboard a house manager or family assistant so you can lighten your load immediately without the stress of figuring it out alone.
Imagine outsourcing the daily chaos, laundry, meal prep, errands, and organizing…so you can actually enjoy your family instead of constantly managing them. That’s what building a village did for me, and it’s why I’m sharing the exact steps I used to build my village with you.
Inside the guide, you’ll get:
- A step-by-step hiring method to find the perfect house manager for your family
- 100+ tasks you can outsource to reclaim your time and energy
- A job description template to post and attract the right candidates
- Budgeting tips to justify the investment and make it work for you
- Interview and reference questions to confidently choose the best fit
- A legally-drafted employment agreement to set expectations from the start
- An onboarding plan to ensure a seamless transition and long-term success
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If you’re ready to take action and build your own village, grab the Sage Haus Starter Kit today and start making your life easier. Because let’s face it… moms need help, and now, you know exactly how to get it. You can learn more about the starter kit here.
There is no shame in outsourcing. Our mothers and grandmothers may have done it all themselves, but times have changed. Moms today are balancing careers, household duties, parenting, and self-care. Expecting one person to manage it all is unrealistic and unfair.
Hiring help doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re wise enough to recognize that you deserve support. A well-functioning village allows you to show up as the best version of yourself for your family and, most importantly, for you.
Your Family Deserves a Happy, Healthy Mom
At the end of the day, the people who matter most, your children, your spouse, and you…deserve a mom who isn’t drowning in exhaustion. Moms need help, and that help is available. Whether you start small by outsourcing one task or go all-in on building your dream team, taking steps to lighten your load will transform your life.
So, mom, what’s stopping you? It’s time to build your village and reclaim your peace. Because you—and your family, deserve it. Learn more about our starter kit here.
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