There’s a special kind of exhaustion that comes from being the one who remembers everything… It’s mental exhaustion, and it is WAY different than physical exhaustion. The exhaustion that comes from being the person doing the laundry rotation, the one taking care of the plants and pets, the person buying the missing birthday gift for next week’s party. You’re not just running a household, you’re managing a life. For many modern families, the answer is… hiring help, and that may look like a house manager. Hiring a house manager can help your sanity, your time management, and finally, help you feel like you can breathe again. In this article, we are going to walk through what a house manager job description actually looks like, and how this role can change everything about how your home runs.
If you are ready to skip the overwhelm and just get help? Book a free info call and let us find your perfect house manager.
What Is a House Manager?
A house manager is the person who steps into the chaos and says, “I’ve got this.” They specialize in household management, overseeing the daily operations of your home so you can stop carrying the entire load alone.
This is a true manager position, someone who handles logistics, keeps tabs on the calendar, manages the household and takes on tasks like grocery shopping, running errands, and scheduling project hires like contractors, gardeners, meal prep chefs and nannies. The best part? They do it all without needing to be micromanaged.
We have talked about this before… but if you missed it a house manager is the COO of your house… YOU are still the CEO!
Responsibilities of a House Manager
While each house manager job is tailored to the family, here are some common tasks that fall under the umbrella of a house manager job description:
- Managing family schedules, appointments, and daily logistics
- Running errands, from dry cleaning to Target runs
- Grocery shopping and pantry restocking
- Overseeing repairs, home projects, and vendor communication
- Coordinating birthday parties, holidays, and school events
- Supervising other people on your household team like nannies or cleaners
- Managing budgets, inventory, and household supplies
- Creating home organization systems
- Acting as a personal assistant to the parent(s) or family
- Ensuring everything in the home runs smoothly day-to-day
And here’s the magic: a good house manager doesn’t just follow a list, they think ahead. They spot the gap, they solve the problem, and they get it done. They have a system!
What Makes a Great House Manager?
You don’t want someone who just “helps out.” You want someone with a professional mindset, sharp intuition, and serious communication skills. Here’s what we look for when placing talent through Sage Haus:
- Proactive and solutions-oriented
- Organized, reliable, and detail-driven
- Skilled at time management and delegation
- Clear, kind, and direct in communication
- Confident in managing others and multitasking
- Comfortable acting as a liaison between parents, providers, and vendors
This is someone who doesn’t flinch when things get hectic, they quietly take over the clipboard and restore order.
Not Just a Nanny or Housekeeper
It’s easy to confuse a house manager with other household roles, but they’re distinct:
- A nanny focuses on child development and care
- A housekeeper ensures the home is clean and maintained
- A house manager oversees the big picture and all the moving parts that keep life running
If you’ve already built your “modern village” with support like a nanny or meal prep chef, but still feel overwhelmed, the house manager job fills the critical gaps.
Can You Afford a House Manager?
You might be surprised. Many families assume this role is out of reach, but when you consider the return on investment (your time, energy, and well-being), it becomes clear.
Here’s what to expect:
- Part-time house manager support starts at $25–$35/hour
- Full time roles can range from $50K–$120K/year depending on experience and duties
- Most Sage Haus families hire 10–20 hours per week of support, but we work with part-time and full-time
Even just a few hours a week can transform your family’s rhythm. You’ll feel less rushed, less reactive, and more connected to what matters most. We actually wrote an entire post about house manager salaries that you can read here.
Why Use a Hiring Service?
Here’s the truth: the best talent is in high demand, and while you’re juggling everything, top-tier candidates are being snapped up.
At Sage Haus, we specialize in placing house managers, family assistants, and other qualified support professionals who fit your household like a glove. We don’t just send resumes, we walk alongside you through our full-service placement process:
- We learn your needs and create a custom manager job description
- We recruit and vet every candidate
- We onboard seamlessly, including contracts, background checks, and our signature Home Systems course
- We offer an up to 60-day guarantee because your peace of mind matters
Whether you’re hiring for the first time or need to level up your current support, we’re here to help. Learn more about our hiring services here.
Frequently Asked Questions
A house manager typically focuses on the day-to-day operations of a private household, managing schedules, errands, vendors, and household systems. An estate manager is similar but often works in larger properties or estates, overseeing household staff, property maintenance, and sometimes multiple residences. For most busy families, a house manager is the right fit, they handle the operational side of running your home without requiring the scale of an estate position.
Yes, a house manager is a professional member of your household staff, but they function in a management capacity. Unlike other household staff who may focus on specific tasks (cleaning, childcare, cooking), a house manager oversees the household as a whole. Think of them as the operational lead of your private household, coordinating, delegating, and ensuring everything runs smoothly.
Absolutely. One of the core strengths of a house manager is their ability to coordinate and supervise other staff members on your household team. Whether you have a nanny, housekeeper, meal prep chef, or contractors coming through, the house manager acts as the liaison, scheduling, communicating expectations, and ensuring everyone is aligned. This removes the burden from you to manage multiple people.
Overseeing household operations means managing the invisible systems that keep your home functioning. This includes tracking what needs to be done, anticipating problems before they happen, coordinating schedules, managing vendors, maintaining inventory, and ensuring that nothing falls through the cracks. It’s the cognitive work of running a home, the planning, remembering, and coordinating that typically falls on one person’s shoulders.
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